4 Topic Ideas to Chat With Girls
Recently, many guys have told me that girls these days can be really picky when it comes to chatting. They’ll just ignore you or act like they’re too cool for school if you disagree on something! It’s left some guys feeling confused and unsure of what they did wrong. After all, they didn’t do anything bad, so why are girls acting that way?
In most cases, the real issue is simply that these guys don’t know how to find good conversation topics when talking to girls. But never fear – I’ve identified the four most popular topics among girls to get the chat flowing:
1. Future Plans
I know what you’re thinking – who wants to hear about future plans on a first chat, right? But hear me out. If you’re both interested in each other, you’ll both want to learn more about what the other person is about. Just asking questions back and forth can feel stiff. But discussing plans shows what you’re all about without being too pushy. It also lets her get a sense of your personality and priorities through what you share.
Girls dig guys who are motivated and have their act together. If you can clearly lay out your future goals and how she might fit into the picture, she’ll be impressed by your ambition and vision. Just don’t make it a straight interrogation – keep it light!
2. Gossip and Trends
Girls are pros at keeping up with celebrity news and online buzz. If you know the latest drama or viral hits, she’ll be into chatting about it with you. Focus on celebrity gossip and social media personalities rather than sports or hardcore news. Around 80% of girls are all over that kind of light-hearted content.
3. Vacation Tales
Who doesn’t love a fun story? Swap stories about crazy things that happened on trips or interesting people you’ve met. Even if you don’t have your own tales, sharing others’ adventures satisfies curiosity. For girls, it’s less about facts and more about entertainment. Bonus points if your anecdotes are laugh-out-loud hilarious!
Girls pay attention to surroundings and really value experiences. Talking about cool cafés, shops, or events you’ve been to is a window into your world. It also lets her picture you in a positive setting and get a sense of your style. Droping the name of a nice spot you know is a subtle hint that you’re cultured too!
Guys, don’t underestimate trying out these oft-overlooked topics. While movies, food and travel are tried-and-true topics too, mixing it up with things girls genuinely care about can really help get a conversation going. Now you have no excuse – get out there and start chatting!