Making Sense of Mixed Signals in Relationships
Have you ever had an interaction where one person seemed really into you, but you didn’t feel the same way? Or maybe you liked someone, but they acted kind of distant? It can be confusing when people’s feelings don’t match up. This article will look at what might be going on in situations like these and offer some tips on handling them.
When She’s Into You but You’re Not Feeling It
Sometimes a girl will act really excited to be around a guy, but he just isn’t that into her. There could be a few reasons for this:
- She might have a crush on him and that’s why she’s so friendly.
- He may not realize how she feels or isn’t interested in her that way.
If he does start to like her back, he should try talking to her more to get to know her better. But if he’s sure he only sees her as a friend, he needs to let her down gently so she doesn’t get the wrong idea.
When You’re Into Them but They’re Distant
On the other hand, a girl may act cold towards a guy who likes her. There could be reasons for this too:
- She could be shy or protecting her feelings.
- He finds her attractive but she’s holding back for some reason.
If she really isn’t interested, she needs to make that clear so he stops hoping for more. But if she does like him but is just nervous, opening up more could help them connect.
Being enthusiastic or distant are both normal in relationships. Take time to understand each situation before reacting, and always be respectful of how the other person feels.